When it comes to charging high end ticket for our products and services, essentially what we're doing is making a vibrational decision to STEP IT UP in the way we serve and show up to our ideal clients. It is saying yes to deeper and bigger transformations that deliver and create sustaining change in the life of both our clients as well as that of ours.
However, the price tag of our services should, when it comes down to it, be a reflection of that vibrational energy, if we are to be in alignment with what we are puting out there.
So what is this high vibrational energy about, you might ask?
Here’s what I think are the 7 essential qualities that a high vibrational coach should be embodying:
1. STRONG CONTAINER
A highly vibrational end coach has the ability, awareness and understanding when it comes to creating and maintaining a strong container of support for their clients to grow, dive deep, release and create from. Without a strong container the client is asked to pretty much take a big leap of faith in the coaching relationship and it does not create much stability for them.
Lack of a strong container can make it difficult for the client to develop deep trust and engage in the coaching relationship in the most profitable to them way. Those coaches who are able to create strong containers, are essentially those who own their value and gifts in a grounded way. They are those who understand the tools they work with well enough to lead others and can go deeper in creating the energetic support that can help their clients not just do well, but amazing. A strong container can be the difference between doing ok and thriving! Both for ourselves as well as our clients.
2. OWNING OUR VALUE
A coach who owns their worth can be the set the best example to their clients in terms of what they need to be and do to achieve the results they desire. They also have the tools that can help their clients do the same and have done the arduous journey from knowing their tools mentally, to understanding them with their heart. In other words, owning our value is what essentially creates alignment and essentially what can actually help our clients create the leaps they desire.
3. EMOTIONAL MATURITY
A coach who has the emotional maturity in the way they show up in their life and business determines how well they handle the ups and downs they are presented with, as well as the ability to learn, let go and transcend their predicament. A mature in mind, heart and spirit coach does not create drama, but is ready to cut through theirs and their clients’ limitations with grace and respect and that includes owning mistakes and acknowledging truth when necessary. It is not about being perfect, but it’s about being honest and robust with all situations they are met with, bringing conscious process and resolving issues quickly. They are resourceful and forward moving.
4. NOT HIDING BEHIND SPIRITUAL/COACH PERSONAS
The High end coach is someone who is not interested to hide behind a persona for the sake of giving meaning and significance to their lives and attracting their clients. They simply do what they have become to be after work on self and development. After growth and undoing. They are stripped down from the illusions and masks we have been taught to hide behind and that very journey of unmasking and transformation, death and rebirth has been an important learning for them to now serve others on that high end level, free of farcade and limitation. They choose to stand in their truth and understand their message deeply. And yes they are done hiding behind personas!
5. CALLING PEOPLE ON THEIR STUFF, READY TO OWN OURS
A high end coach will be challenging and ready to call clients on their stuff when needed and necessary. They have had to go through that very same process themselves so they do know how to step and acknowledge their shadow to the best of their ability. Equally they will be ready to admit when they are wrong or made a mistake. They are high in integrity and teach their clients to be the same.
6. CREATING & MAINTAINING HEALTHY BOUNDARIES
A high end coach understand and knows how to set healthy boundaries. Thei own life has been a process of trial and error that lead them to this. The boundaries are more healthy than they are strict and they set them in a way that suits the nature of their work and the type of clients they work with. That at times means having more relaxed boundaries and other times more strict ones. Whatever they are, these boundaries are highlighted in contracted agreements.
7. ABILITY TO GROW AND DEVELOP + LET GO OF THE OLD
A high end coach has been used to the process of letting go and rebuilding from scratch. They have gone through many transformations and have built their resilience through these phases of death and rebirth enough to know that it all comes back to new growth and insight. They do not hold back from going through change and know how to deal with the fear and big changes that comes from upleveling and moving forward and upwards. They will learn to let go of old relationships that don’t serve and old systems and dated beliefs for the sake of their development and will know how to process the change in a grounded and self-loving way.
Do any of these resonate with you?
Please share with me below and add any more that you believe should be part of this post.
As always, i hope you enjoyed this read and thanks for staying.
Business Shaman & Soul Inspirator for Creators + Visionaries